The pattern
The familiar choices we keep making, and the moment we start to notice.
The ExBeen podcast / Launch target: January 2027
Anonymous relationship stories. Honest reflection. A little more understanding of ourselves, one conversation at a time.

Coming to your headphones
We’ll unpack what happened, what stayed with us and what we’re learning to carry differently. Expect thoughtful storytelling, candid conversations and space to change your mind.
Our first season is in development. Join the waitlist for launch news and the first invitation to listen.
Join the waitlistInside the conversations
The familiar choices we keep making, and the moment we start to notice.
Owning what was ours without taking responsibility for someone else’s choices.
Boundaries, new beginnings and the small ways we learn to show up differently.
Before anyone hits record
Our editorial approach is built around pseudonyms, removing identifying details and discussing voice alteration where needed. We’ll agree on what can be used before a contributor’s story is published.
We won’t invite an ex to respond without the original contributor agreeing to a two-sided conversation. Sharing a story is an invitation to reflect, never an invitation to track someone down.
Story submissions are not open yet. We’ll explain the submission and consent process when they open.